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How Naruthai Tansukasem continues to advocate for ending cyber-violence and online harassment

Sexual objectification in the media can affect entertainers mentally, emotionally and physically.

How Naruthai Tansukasem continues to advocate for ending cyber-violence and online harassment

Naruthai Tansukasem performing during a 2019 reunion concert with her former group "Siamese Kittenz".

Photo credit: UN Women

Editor's Note: This story was initially published in Naruthai Tansukasem's words on UN Women, in participation with the organization's "Hand Over the Mic" initiative.

Many people may adore young female singers who enjoy the bright lights and legions of fans. But there's another side that few people ever think about.

We are often treated by society as mere sexual objects and not human beings with dignity and rights. The fans' actions are part of the objectification problem, but they don't realize it. Our pictures, autographs, handwritten notes to fans, meet-and-greets — all these became sellable products that cost us our privacy.


I was recently harassed online.I noticed a sudden (surge) in the number of followers on my Instagram account and phone calls from friends and fans were pouring in to check if 'it' was really me. The distributed photos and videos were hauntingly graphic. Some of my close friends thought it was me! I was traumatized and embarrassed to see my headshot photographs were cut and pasted on someone else's naked body.


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After that, I started receiving excessive spam. I felt so numb and hopeless. I switched off my phone and consulted an NGO working to end all forms of sexual harassment and domestic violence. I received legal support, filed a police complaint and also reported to the digital crime department at the Thai Ministry of Digital Economy and Society. My complaints were received but the authorities have no clue who to go after.

Sexual objectification in the media can affect entertainers mentally, emotionally and physically. Some of us receive messages asking for escort services or more, and a lot of the time, photos of private parts or people engaging in [sexual] activities were mailed to us. I was constantly afraid that my name and photos would be misused.

Perpetrators of violence against women and children are increasingly turning to technology as a result of COVID-19 lockdowns. Women and girls experience cyber or technology-facilitated violence, which is misogynistic and hostile. Sometimes we have heard that help was too late to arrive. The more perpetrators are able to remain unknown, the more lethal they can be."

UN Women works to change social norms and prevent violence against women with programmes and campaigns on the ground

Naruthai Tansukasem, 20, became a singer in the girls-led band, 'Siamese Kittenz', at age 12, with a passion for stage performance and dancing. After being in the group for six years, she quit because of the online harassment that's all too common and often unaddressed in the entertainment industry. Tansukasem is now an advocate who speaks out against the objectification of women and girls in the entertainment industry, a role she never anticipated for herself.

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