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Vanessa Bryant's clapback at Meek Mill for insensitive Kobe lyric was eloquent

In this file photo taken on March 04, 2018 US actor and basketball player Kobe Bryant anf his wife Vanessa Laine Bryant attend the 90th Annual Academy Awards Governors Ball at the Hollywood & Highland Center in Hollywood, California. - NBA legend Kobe Bryant died Sunday when a helicopter crashed and burst into flames in foggy conditions in suburban Los Angeles, killing all nine people on board and plunging the sports world into mourning.
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Meek Mill was at the hands of controversy after an unreleased clip of his song in collaboration with Lil Baby that went viral. The song seemingly made an offensive comment about the late basketball icon Kobe Bryant.

In the clip, the line in question was the following: "Yeah, and if I ever lack I'm goin' out with my choppa It be another Kobe." Naturally, the public didn't hesitate to call him out for the choice of words because of the tragedy that occurred.

Meek came off a bit defiant in his response to the backlash and went on to post an image of a hat with Kobe Bryant and his 13-year-old daughter Gianna's names written on it to show that he wasn't trying to be disrespectful.

One can even say this was an excellent way to do damage control. Despite this, some people still feel that he didn't give a proper apology, and it is entirely understandable.

Moreover, as new viral moments occur, other ones start to fade away like this one. However, almost a week later, Vanessa Bryant took to her Instagram Story to address the situation.


Vanessa Bryant's Instagram Story @vanessabryantScreenshot by Breanna Robinson

"Dear @meekmill, I find this line to be extremely insensitive and disrespectful. Period," Bryant said. "I am not familiar with any of your music, but I believe you can do better than this. If you are a fan, fine, there's a better way to show your admiration for my husband. This lacks respect and tact."

Well said.

READ: Why Meek Mill's leaked song lyric about Kobe Bryant is causing so much conflict

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The Philadelphia-based rapper has experienced a lot of backlash on Twitter

As of Tuesday, Meek took to his Twitter to talk about the situation. "I apologized to her [Vanessa Bryant] in private earlier today not to the public...," said Meek. "Nothing I say on my page directed to a internet viral moment or the family of a grieving woman! If you care about someone grieving change the subject!"

Overall, when I saw Vanessa's response, I couldn't help but think that she eloquently addressed how she felt about the situation while pointing out the situation's error and why it should have been handled with care and respect.

And for Meek, I feel that he should have been more mindful of how this could be offensive, even though he may not have seen the error initially.

What do you think of the situation surrounding Meek Mill and the controversial lyric? What do you think of Vanessa Bryant's response?

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Women founders continue to come up against common challenges and biases

Written by Kelly Devine, Division President UK & Ireland, Mastercard

Starting a business may have historically been perceived as a man’s game, but this couldn’t be further from reality. Research shows women are actually more likely than men to actively choose to start their own business – often motivated by the desire to be their own boss or to have a better work-life balance and spend more time with their family.

The recently published Mastercard Index of Women Entrepreneurship 2021 found that in the category of 'Aspiration Driven Entrepreneurship’ – capturing those who actively choose to start their own business – women in the UK surpass men: 60% vs 56%. And Mastercard research from February 2022 found 10% of female business owners started their business in the past two years compared to 6% of men – meaning women were 67% more likely to have started a business during the pandemic.

Yet, there are common challenges that women founders continue to come up against - not least the gender imbalance in the household and long-held biases which are still prevalent.

In the UK, women are almost three times more likely to be balancing care and home commitments than men, and this was exacerbated during the pandemic as the additional barriers of school closures and lockdowns meant that the care time of dependents rose significantly on a day-to-day level for women. In addition, women were less likely to have access to a home office, greatly impacting the work they were able to accomplish when working from home was the only option.

It's also widely known that female business owners are still more likely to struggle to access funding for their business ideas. According to Dealroom, all-women founding teams received just 1.4% of the €23.7bn invested into UK start-ups in 2021, while all-male leadership teams have taken almost 90% of the available capital.

Without financial support, and when juggling significant time pressures both at home and at work, how can women grow their companies and #BreaktheBias (as this year’s International Women’s Day termed it)? What tools or support can save them time and money, and give them the headspace they need to focus on building their business?

With female owned businesses collectively estimating revenue growth of £120 billion over the next five years, solving this problem is bigger than supporting women – it’s about supporting the national economy.

Using tech to level the playing field

There are clearly societal issues at play that need to be resolved. But when we look at the rise in technology businesses during the pandemic, we can plainly see an alternative source of support critical for business growth: digital tools.

A third of female business owners say new technologies will be crucial to the success of their business in the future and one in five say it is the most important thing for business growth.

With new technology comes new ways to pay, create, and work. And yet there are barriers that prevent business owners accessing this technology. Women are significantly more likely to say they want to use more digital tools but don’t know what is best for their business and also more concerned about the security of digital tools.

When technology is adopted by businesses – whether using online accounting solutions or messenger services for communicating with staff – it saves them time, allows them to maintain and grow their customer base, and ultimately increases cost savings and profit.

By drastically improving the training and support that is available to women-owned business to access and utilise technology we will allow these businesses to grow and succeed. And we know there is demand for it.

Research done by the IFC and Dalberg shows that female entrepreneurs are more likely to invest time and money in business development. This includes product development, customer base expansion, and digital tools and training and there are plenty of services available offering this type of support – many of them for free.

One such programme is Strive UK – an initiative of the Mastercard Center for Inclusive Growth – which aims to reach 650,000 micro and small business owners across the UK and empower them with the tools they need to thrive in the digital economy through free guidance, helpful tools and one-to-one mentoring.

Working together with small business experts – Enterprise Nation, Be the Business and Digital Boost – we hope to ensure hundreds of thousands of UK female business owners have the tools they need to succeed and reach their ambitious goals. Because this ambition remains strong in the UK, with female business owners largely optimistic about the future despite the multitude of challenges they are facing. Four in ten say they will grow their business in the next five years – compared to only a third of male business owners – and they’re also 35% less likely than men to say they plan to downsize or close the business.

But if we do not empower female entrepreneurs to access the tools and technology they need to grow, there is a risk this optimism could be misplaced. Support programmes that provide business owners with guidance and mentorship can help ensure this isn’t the case, allowing female entrepreneurs to not only survive but thrive in the months and years ahead.