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Saweetie's experiences with PTSD highlight the dangers of social media, regardless of status

LOS ANGELES, CALIFORNIA - JUNE 23: Saweetie poses for a portrait during the BET Awards 2019 at Microsoft Theater on June 23, 2019 in Los Angeles, California.
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Musical artists, celebrities, influencers, and many others in the public light seem to be untouchable and not prone to getting their feelings hurt by negative things people have to say about them on news outlets or social media.

But that's quite the contrary.

Because they are human beings, they experience anxiety, depression, happiness, and many other emotions, just like the general population.

When Saweetie discussed her claims of PTSD in the April cover interview for Cosmopolitan, it made sense. The Bay Area-based rapper mentioned that she felt an immense amount of self-doubt, which led to her PTSD. In 2018, a radio host on Hot97 called her freestyling abilities "basic," which troubled her.

"It was a really dark point in my life," she said. "I went from being so loved so quickly because of 'Icy Girl' to, on my first promo run, well, you saw the interview. The script flipped really quick, like night and day. I had PTSD from that."

When the Cosmopolitan interview dropped, Ebro, one of the hosts from the Hot97 radio show, Ebro In The Morning, seemingly took to Instagram to share some thoughts about the state of music, which many people believed was a dig at Saweetie. "Please don't confuse success in the music business with being good at making music," he tweeted before the internet swiftly came to Saweetie's defense.

Others made more direct accusations of Ebro having misogynist tendencies, claiming he has a bias against female rappers.

"Not you dragging Saweetie," said one fan, which promoted Ebro to clarify with the following. "Whoa. Whoa. Never she's a sweetie... stop that. Nice person and some good records too."

In a recent video, Laura Stylez, Ebro, and Peter Rosenberg of the Hot97 radio show apparently didn't want Saweetie to showcase her freestyling skills in that 2018 interview. They were seemingly so against the idea that they even lied about their equipment not working properly before the rapper's team urged her to spit some quick bars.

Wow.

"Let's just be honest about what really happened," said radio host Laura Stylez. "When she came in, we were down to do the interview. But her team was really pushing for her to freestyle. I remember us specifically lying and saying our equipment didn't work. We didn't wanna do that to her. We lied and said our equipment wasn't working-- we didn't want her to freestyle, let's just have the interview."

This doesn't sound like a good thing to say out loud, but now, the truth is out.

"I'm really grateful for my start," Saweetie continues in the Cosmopolitan interview. "Because the mistakes, the struggle, the grind -- it allows me to appreciate the rewards that come now because I know what it feels like to sleep in motels, to drive and do promo, to be stressed out."

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She also has hopes that people will eventually appreciate all the heart and soul she puts into her artistry.

"Some of us have it naturally. And some of us don't...like me. And that's okay because I know that as long as I work hard, I'll become one of the best," she says.

Saweetie has been the subject of news as of late, mainly due to her publicized breakup with rapper Quavo. She accused him of cheating on her with multiple women and trying to amend his wrongdoings by buying her expensive gifts.

Ultimately, the rap game can be tough for females. Not only do they have to fit into the "mold" of competing with male rappers in their lyrical abilities, but they also have to be "sexy," "beautiful," and "powerful," which can take a toll on self-esteem.

One day, I hope this narrative can change.

Conversations reached out to the team at Ebro In The Morning for further comment.

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Women founders continue to come up against common challenges and biases

Written by Kelly Devine, Division President UK & Ireland, Mastercard

Starting a business may have historically been perceived as a man’s game, but this couldn’t be further from reality. Research shows women are actually more likely than men to actively choose to start their own business – often motivated by the desire to be their own boss or to have a better work-life balance and spend more time with their family.

The recently published Mastercard Index of Women Entrepreneurship 2021 found that in the category of 'Aspiration Driven Entrepreneurship’ – capturing those who actively choose to start their own business – women in the UK surpass men: 60% vs 56%. And Mastercard research from February 2022 found 10% of female business owners started their business in the past two years compared to 6% of men – meaning women were 67% more likely to have started a business during the pandemic.

Yet, there are common challenges that women founders continue to come up against - not least the gender imbalance in the household and long-held biases which are still prevalent.

In the UK, women are almost three times more likely to be balancing care and home commitments than men, and this was exacerbated during the pandemic as the additional barriers of school closures and lockdowns meant that the care time of dependents rose significantly on a day-to-day level for women. In addition, women were less likely to have access to a home office, greatly impacting the work they were able to accomplish when working from home was the only option.

It's also widely known that female business owners are still more likely to struggle to access funding for their business ideas. According to Dealroom, all-women founding teams received just 1.4% of the €23.7bn invested into UK start-ups in 2021, while all-male leadership teams have taken almost 90% of the available capital.

Without financial support, and when juggling significant time pressures both at home and at work, how can women grow their companies and #BreaktheBias (as this year’s International Women’s Day termed it)? What tools or support can save them time and money, and give them the headspace they need to focus on building their business?

With female owned businesses collectively estimating revenue growth of £120 billion over the next five years, solving this problem is bigger than supporting women – it’s about supporting the national economy.

Using tech to level the playing field

There are clearly societal issues at play that need to be resolved. But when we look at the rise in technology businesses during the pandemic, we can plainly see an alternative source of support critical for business growth: digital tools.

A third of female business owners say new technologies will be crucial to the success of their business in the future and one in five say it is the most important thing for business growth.

With new technology comes new ways to pay, create, and work. And yet there are barriers that prevent business owners accessing this technology. Women are significantly more likely to say they want to use more digital tools but don’t know what is best for their business and also more concerned about the security of digital tools.

When technology is adopted by businesses – whether using online accounting solutions or messenger services for communicating with staff – it saves them time, allows them to maintain and grow their customer base, and ultimately increases cost savings and profit.

By drastically improving the training and support that is available to women-owned business to access and utilise technology we will allow these businesses to grow and succeed. And we know there is demand for it.

Research done by the IFC and Dalberg shows that female entrepreneurs are more likely to invest time and money in business development. This includes product development, customer base expansion, and digital tools and training and there are plenty of services available offering this type of support – many of them for free.

One such programme is Strive UK – an initiative of the Mastercard Center for Inclusive Growth – which aims to reach 650,000 micro and small business owners across the UK and empower them with the tools they need to thrive in the digital economy through free guidance, helpful tools and one-to-one mentoring.

Working together with small business experts – Enterprise Nation, Be the Business and Digital Boost – we hope to ensure hundreds of thousands of UK female business owners have the tools they need to succeed and reach their ambitious goals. Because this ambition remains strong in the UK, with female business owners largely optimistic about the future despite the multitude of challenges they are facing. Four in ten say they will grow their business in the next five years – compared to only a third of male business owners – and they’re also 35% less likely than men to say they plan to downsize or close the business.

But if we do not empower female entrepreneurs to access the tools and technology they need to grow, there is a risk this optimism could be misplaced. Support programmes that provide business owners with guidance and mentorship can help ensure this isn’t the case, allowing female entrepreneurs to not only survive but thrive in the months and years ahead.