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Lessons learned: What did the pandemic teach me about love and compassion?

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For many of us, this is the first pandemic that we have ever experienced. Let me just say I started reverting to my youthful way of thinking and learning, absorbing any and everything around me to build perspectives.

Within this time in my life, the hardships faced within myself, family, and friendships have trickled into the forefront of my consciousness due to suppression. Many new modes of creativity have emerged, and the world has literally done a 180-degree turn.

The very essence of the energies within everyday life has fluctuated, and I feel everything that was bubbling has now erupted, funneling onto the surface. For me, it was hard not to be met with lessons that would mold me into the very person I'm supposed to be for the moment, or the trajectory of where I was heading in the future. I began seeing every crack and crevice of myself, which has taught me to hold a degree of compassion and kindness for other people—the ability to love someone merely through their character.

It's a profound skill set people don't really talk about, but they recognize admiration. People who welcome one another for who they are without preconceived notions tend to be the same people with the most genuine relationships with their loved ones.

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It's beyond important that you love yourself regardless of where you are on the journey

The pandemic has continuously revealed people's true characters and intentions in many situations. As somebody who is able to feel people's emotions and energies, I just try to be as positive as I can while also being aware of my energy and how that might affect others around me.

Sometimes it can be tough not to react impulsively, especially when people have aggressive or threatening dispositions. But in times like this, it's important to keep in mind we're all human beings deserving of love and compassion to get us through times when we may not feel that there's any hope left.

It is not easy to remain open to people or things when undergoing huge amounts of stress, but showing compassion and love is the remedy. Mindfulness should be practiced in many aspects of life. Practicing mindfulness is one method that keeps me present, calm, and patient even when times are rough for myself or others.

I wholeheartedly recognize that life as we know it right now may come with its challenges, but there is always a light at the end of the tunnel no matter what. We are all worthy of knowing that we matter within the world.

As the inspirational message on my Yogi tea bag would say, "love is the ultimate law of life." We must continue to maintain our love for humanity, helping to create brighter days in this lifetime.

Women founders continue to come up against common challenges and biases

Written by Kelly Devine, Division President UK & Ireland, Mastercard

Starting a business may have historically been perceived as a man’s game, but this couldn’t be further from reality. Research shows women are actually more likely than men to actively choose to start their own business – often motivated by the desire to be their own boss or to have a better work-life balance and spend more time with their family.

The recently published Mastercard Index of Women Entrepreneurship 2021 found that in the category of 'Aspiration Driven Entrepreneurship’ – capturing those who actively choose to start their own business – women in the UK surpass men: 60% vs 56%. And Mastercard research from February 2022 found 10% of female business owners started their business in the past two years compared to 6% of men – meaning women were 67% more likely to have started a business during the pandemic.

Yet, there are common challenges that women founders continue to come up against - not least the gender imbalance in the household and long-held biases which are still prevalent.

In the UK, women are almost three times more likely to be balancing care and home commitments than men, and this was exacerbated during the pandemic as the additional barriers of school closures and lockdowns meant that the care time of dependents rose significantly on a day-to-day level for women. In addition, women were less likely to have access to a home office, greatly impacting the work they were able to accomplish when working from home was the only option.

It's also widely known that female business owners are still more likely to struggle to access funding for their business ideas. According to Dealroom, all-women founding teams received just 1.4% of the €23.7bn invested into UK start-ups in 2021, while all-male leadership teams have taken almost 90% of the available capital.

Without financial support, and when juggling significant time pressures both at home and at work, how can women grow their companies and #BreaktheBias (as this year’s International Women’s Day termed it)? What tools or support can save them time and money, and give them the headspace they need to focus on building their business?

With female owned businesses collectively estimating revenue growth of £120 billion over the next five years, solving this problem is bigger than supporting women – it’s about supporting the national economy.

Using tech to level the playing field

There are clearly societal issues at play that need to be resolved. But when we look at the rise in technology businesses during the pandemic, we can plainly see an alternative source of support critical for business growth: digital tools.

A third of female business owners say new technologies will be crucial to the success of their business in the future and one in five say it is the most important thing for business growth.

With new technology comes new ways to pay, create, and work. And yet there are barriers that prevent business owners accessing this technology. Women are significantly more likely to say they want to use more digital tools but don’t know what is best for their business and also more concerned about the security of digital tools.

When technology is adopted by businesses – whether using online accounting solutions or messenger services for communicating with staff – it saves them time, allows them to maintain and grow their customer base, and ultimately increases cost savings and profit.

By drastically improving the training and support that is available to women-owned business to access and utilise technology we will allow these businesses to grow and succeed. And we know there is demand for it.

Research done by the IFC and Dalberg shows that female entrepreneurs are more likely to invest time and money in business development. This includes product development, customer base expansion, and digital tools and training and there are plenty of services available offering this type of support – many of them for free.

One such programme is Strive UK – an initiative of the Mastercard Center for Inclusive Growth – which aims to reach 650,000 micro and small business owners across the UK and empower them with the tools they need to thrive in the digital economy through free guidance, helpful tools and one-to-one mentoring.

Working together with small business experts – Enterprise Nation, Be the Business and Digital Boost – we hope to ensure hundreds of thousands of UK female business owners have the tools they need to succeed and reach their ambitious goals. Because this ambition remains strong in the UK, with female business owners largely optimistic about the future despite the multitude of challenges they are facing. Four in ten say they will grow their business in the next five years – compared to only a third of male business owners – and they’re also 35% less likely than men to say they plan to downsize or close the business.

But if we do not empower female entrepreneurs to access the tools and technology they need to grow, there is a risk this optimism could be misplaced. Support programmes that provide business owners with guidance and mentorship can help ensure this isn’t the case, allowing female entrepreneurs to not only survive but thrive in the months and years ahead.