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Yes, you can still contract an STI when using a condom. Here's how

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With the evolution of technology, individuals are fortunate to have continuous amounts of information at their disposal. With that being said, it's safe to assume our knowledge is always expanding. For example, what we thought to be true five year ago, may not be true today, and vice versa. While expanding our knowledge should be considered crucial, it can also lead to loads of confusion.

Especially when you've been taught to believe something your entire life, which later turns out to be false. Case and point: the belief that all STIs can be prevented by using a condom.There numerous myths surrounding sex education, all of which exceed the number which I can count on all fingers. Regardless, I always believed condoms prevented the spread of all STDs and STIs.

At least, that's what my chauvinistic gym teacher had me believe. While there is truth to some extent of this, like many things in life, it's not as black and white as one may think.

First and foremost, the sole purpose of a condom is to prevent the transmission of semen. When you factor in the truth not all STDs are spread through semen, it opens up a whole new perspective. In fact, there are precisely five types of STDs one can contract just from skin-on-skin contact.

Let's unpack this, shall we.

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HPV (Human papillomavirus)

Considered the most common STI, HPV is contracted from skin-on-skin contact, and affects people within their late teens and early 20s. If you're sexually active, odds are you'll be exposed to it at some point in your life. Symptoms can include genital warts, but most of the time there aren't any, making it difficult for people to know they have it. If untreated, certain strains of HPV can lead to cervical cancer.

This is why getting tested and receiving the vaccine is recommended. The CDC recommends HPV vaccination begin at 11 or 12 years, and continue for everyone through age 26.

Herpes

Another common STD that can have no symptoms is herpes. There are two forms of herpes, known as herpes simplex virus type 1 (HSV-1) and herpes simplex virus type 2 (HSV-2). Oral herpes is caused by HSV-1, and can be spread through saliva during oral sex. This was probably the one that surprised me most, considering how I thought herpes was spread through vaginal intercourse. Genital herpes is more common, and affects one out of every six people aged 14 to 49.

Like oral herpes, genital herpes can also spread through saliva during oral sex, especially if your partner already has an oral herpes infection, or genital secretions. What's even more terrifying is an individual can contract herpes from a sex partner who may not know they're infected, or has a visible sore.

The only way to completely avoid genital or oral herpes is to remain abstinent from vaginal, anal, or oral sex. While this may sound drastic, another way to lower your risk of contracting herpes is to remain in a long-term mutually monogamous relationship with a partner who is not infected. Ok, who knew the virus was so discriminative over someone's sex life?

Judgmental much?

Pubic lice (crabs)

Condoms won't help here, considering lice lay eggs and live in the hair. Um, ew. While public lice may not be as common anymore, thanks to the evolution of grooming, it is still exists. For those who rock a full bush (and kudos to you for not conforming to societies beauty standards), you might be more at risk of contract pubic lice.

Unfortunately the only way to prevent yourself from getting pubic lice is to abstain from sex with someone who has it.

Syphilis

Although all STDs are scary, syphilis has the potential to cause serious health problems if it is not treated. It is contracted through direct contact with a syphilis sore during vaginal, anal, or oral sex. It is divided into four stages (primary, secondary, latent, and tertiary).

In addition, syphilis can spread from an infected mother to her unborn baby. While wearing a condom might prevent someone from contracting syphilis from an individual who has a sore on their penis or vagina, it can't prevent someone from contracting it from someone who comes in contact with the person's anus, lips, or mouth.

This means condoms aren't 100% towards protecting someone from the infection.

Molluscum

Last but not least is a virus manifesting as tiny little bumps on the skin. Caused by a poxvirus (molluscum contagiosum virus), this form of sexually transmitted disease doesn't cause any serious, long-term health issues, and is often asymptomatic apart than the appearance of bumps. Because of this, molluscum is not as widely-popular as the other forms of STDs.

It is mostly considered a mild skin disease characterized by lesions that may itch or feel tender to the touch. It can occur anywhere on the face, neck, arms, legs, abdomen, and genital area, alone or in groups.

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Women founders continue to come up against common challenges and biases

Written by Kelly Devine, Division President UK & Ireland, Mastercard

Starting a business may have historically been perceived as a man’s game, but this couldn’t be further from reality. Research shows women are actually more likely than men to actively choose to start their own business – often motivated by the desire to be their own boss or to have a better work-life balance and spend more time with their family.

The recently published Mastercard Index of Women Entrepreneurship 2021 found that in the category of 'Aspiration Driven Entrepreneurship’ – capturing those who actively choose to start their own business – women in the UK surpass men: 60% vs 56%. And Mastercard research from February 2022 found 10% of female business owners started their business in the past two years compared to 6% of men – meaning women were 67% more likely to have started a business during the pandemic.

Yet, there are common challenges that women founders continue to come up against - not least the gender imbalance in the household and long-held biases which are still prevalent.

In the UK, women are almost three times more likely to be balancing care and home commitments than men, and this was exacerbated during the pandemic as the additional barriers of school closures and lockdowns meant that the care time of dependents rose significantly on a day-to-day level for women. In addition, women were less likely to have access to a home office, greatly impacting the work they were able to accomplish when working from home was the only option.

It's also widely known that female business owners are still more likely to struggle to access funding for their business ideas. According to Dealroom, all-women founding teams received just 1.4% of the €23.7bn invested into UK start-ups in 2021, while all-male leadership teams have taken almost 90% of the available capital.

Without financial support, and when juggling significant time pressures both at home and at work, how can women grow their companies and #BreaktheBias (as this year’s International Women’s Day termed it)? What tools or support can save them time and money, and give them the headspace they need to focus on building their business?

With female owned businesses collectively estimating revenue growth of £120 billion over the next five years, solving this problem is bigger than supporting women – it’s about supporting the national economy.

Using tech to level the playing field

There are clearly societal issues at play that need to be resolved. But when we look at the rise in technology businesses during the pandemic, we can plainly see an alternative source of support critical for business growth: digital tools.

A third of female business owners say new technologies will be crucial to the success of their business in the future and one in five say it is the most important thing for business growth.

With new technology comes new ways to pay, create, and work. And yet there are barriers that prevent business owners accessing this technology. Women are significantly more likely to say they want to use more digital tools but don’t know what is best for their business and also more concerned about the security of digital tools.

When technology is adopted by businesses – whether using online accounting solutions or messenger services for communicating with staff – it saves them time, allows them to maintain and grow their customer base, and ultimately increases cost savings and profit.

By drastically improving the training and support that is available to women-owned business to access and utilise technology we will allow these businesses to grow and succeed. And we know there is demand for it.

Research done by the IFC and Dalberg shows that female entrepreneurs are more likely to invest time and money in business development. This includes product development, customer base expansion, and digital tools and training and there are plenty of services available offering this type of support – many of them for free.

One such programme is Strive UK – an initiative of the Mastercard Center for Inclusive Growth – which aims to reach 650,000 micro and small business owners across the UK and empower them with the tools they need to thrive in the digital economy through free guidance, helpful tools and one-to-one mentoring.

Working together with small business experts – Enterprise Nation, Be the Business and Digital Boost – we hope to ensure hundreds of thousands of UK female business owners have the tools they need to succeed and reach their ambitious goals. Because this ambition remains strong in the UK, with female business owners largely optimistic about the future despite the multitude of challenges they are facing. Four in ten say they will grow their business in the next five years – compared to only a third of male business owners – and they’re also 35% less likely than men to say they plan to downsize or close the business.

But if we do not empower female entrepreneurs to access the tools and technology they need to grow, there is a risk this optimism could be misplaced. Support programmes that provide business owners with guidance and mentorship can help ensure this isn’t the case, allowing female entrepreneurs to not only survive but thrive in the months and years ahead.