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How discovering Tumblr spirituality changed my life

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I don't come from a particularly religious family. My parents always wanted us to figure out what we believed by ourselves. And for most of my life, I was okay with not believing in anything. I used to identify as an atheist but I no longer think this was an accurate label because I was open to believing in something, I just didn't know what to believe in.

When I was around fourteen, I started using Tumblr. During this time, I was introduced to many things both good and bad. One of the good things I came across is what is now known as 'Tumblr Witchcraft'.

There was spell jars, running in the rain, dancing to Fleetwood Mac and so much more. It was a magical time for a curious soul like me.

Once I had my first taste of witchcraft, I was hooked. I loved the idea of working with the phases of the moon and using nature in my practice. Around this time, I was also a huge Vampire Diaries fan so it fit into the aesthetic of my life at the time pretty nicely.

Around this time, I was also a very negative and angry individual. I mean, most of it could probably be put down teenage angst mixed with abandonment issues mixed with attention seeking.

I was in the 'broom closet', a term that refers to practitioners who hadn't gone public about their craft. At first, it was like a hobby. I would craft pentacles out of sticks, put my moon water out on the full moon and write in my Book of Shadows.

As time ticked on, I got more and more into this lifestyle but it started changed a little.

In 2016, I discovered mindfulness, meditation and gratitude. By the time I have come across these practices, some of the anger and angst that was stuck with me when I started practising had gone away. Despite this, I was still a very negative person.

I was either working for £4.44 in Primark on the weekends or swamped with college work. At the tender age of seventeen, I was convinced that I would never be happy in life. So, I decided to start working on my outlook on life.

I was watching loads of creators who promoted positive living by doing things like meditation, mindful living and showing gratitude. Even with a healthy dose of skepticism, I started incorporating these things into my life.

Although these things aren't inherently spiritual, they helped me through my spiritual journey. I also started journalling and getting to the root of my issues.

I found that one thing that was keeping me in a negative state of mind was trying to control everything. I took on the burden of trying to control each and every part of my life and this made me miserable. Then I discovered a belief in the Universe.

I kept seeing people say 'trust in the universe' and I didn't really get it at first. So, I read into it and the Universe seemed like something I could get into.

That night, I did a releasing ceremony in the shower (woo-woo, I know), where I let go of all my control, all of my negative ideas and anything that was holding me back from happiness in life.

I woke up the next morning feeling lighter. Almost like a weight had been lifted from my shoulders. Even after just a few months of meditating when I could and journalling when I felt like it had made such a difference.

Over time, I started to develop a more positive mindset. My outlook on life changed because I was actively seeking more positivity. One of the twelve laws of the Universe is the Law of Attraction - this law states that whatever we put out into the universe.

When you put out positive energy, you get positive energy back. Well, most the time anyway.

Having these little beliefs that became so sacred to me overtime really helped me develop a better mindset and become a happier person overall.

My journey into spirituality has changed my life in so many ways. It's given me confidence, peace, happiness and so much more.

Women founders continue to come up against common challenges and biases

Written by Kelly Devine, Division President UK & Ireland, Mastercard

Starting a business may have historically been perceived as a man’s game, but this couldn’t be further from reality. Research shows women are actually more likely than men to actively choose to start their own business – often motivated by the desire to be their own boss or to have a better work-life balance and spend more time with their family.

The recently published Mastercard Index of Women Entrepreneurship 2021 found that in the category of 'Aspiration Driven Entrepreneurship’ – capturing those who actively choose to start their own business – women in the UK surpass men: 60% vs 56%. And Mastercard research from February 2022 found 10% of female business owners started their business in the past two years compared to 6% of men – meaning women were 67% more likely to have started a business during the pandemic.

Yet, there are common challenges that women founders continue to come up against - not least the gender imbalance in the household and long-held biases which are still prevalent.

In the UK, women are almost three times more likely to be balancing care and home commitments than men, and this was exacerbated during the pandemic as the additional barriers of school closures and lockdowns meant that the care time of dependents rose significantly on a day-to-day level for women. In addition, women were less likely to have access to a home office, greatly impacting the work they were able to accomplish when working from home was the only option.

It's also widely known that female business owners are still more likely to struggle to access funding for their business ideas. According to Dealroom, all-women founding teams received just 1.4% of the €23.7bn invested into UK start-ups in 2021, while all-male leadership teams have taken almost 90% of the available capital.

Without financial support, and when juggling significant time pressures both at home and at work, how can women grow their companies and #BreaktheBias (as this year’s International Women’s Day termed it)? What tools or support can save them time and money, and give them the headspace they need to focus on building their business?

With female owned businesses collectively estimating revenue growth of £120 billion over the next five years, solving this problem is bigger than supporting women – it’s about supporting the national economy.

Using tech to level the playing field

There are clearly societal issues at play that need to be resolved. But when we look at the rise in technology businesses during the pandemic, we can plainly see an alternative source of support critical for business growth: digital tools.

A third of female business owners say new technologies will be crucial to the success of their business in the future and one in five say it is the most important thing for business growth.

With new technology comes new ways to pay, create, and work. And yet there are barriers that prevent business owners accessing this technology. Women are significantly more likely to say they want to use more digital tools but don’t know what is best for their business and also more concerned about the security of digital tools.

When technology is adopted by businesses – whether using online accounting solutions or messenger services for communicating with staff – it saves them time, allows them to maintain and grow their customer base, and ultimately increases cost savings and profit.

By drastically improving the training and support that is available to women-owned business to access and utilise technology we will allow these businesses to grow and succeed. And we know there is demand for it.

Research done by the IFC and Dalberg shows that female entrepreneurs are more likely to invest time and money in business development. This includes product development, customer base expansion, and digital tools and training and there are plenty of services available offering this type of support – many of them for free.

One such programme is Strive UK – an initiative of the Mastercard Center for Inclusive Growth – which aims to reach 650,000 micro and small business owners across the UK and empower them with the tools they need to thrive in the digital economy through free guidance, helpful tools and one-to-one mentoring.

Working together with small business experts – Enterprise Nation, Be the Business and Digital Boost – we hope to ensure hundreds of thousands of UK female business owners have the tools they need to succeed and reach their ambitious goals. Because this ambition remains strong in the UK, with female business owners largely optimistic about the future despite the multitude of challenges they are facing. Four in ten say they will grow their business in the next five years – compared to only a third of male business owners – and they’re also 35% less likely than men to say they plan to downsize or close the business.

But if we do not empower female entrepreneurs to access the tools and technology they need to grow, there is a risk this optimism could be misplaced. Support programmes that provide business owners with guidance and mentorship can help ensure this isn’t the case, allowing female entrepreneurs to not only survive but thrive in the months and years ahead.