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We need to talk about why 'The Gorilla Glue Girl' did what she did

Tessica Brown

Courtesy of Tessica Brown's Instagram

For the past few days, I've been following a particular story that has been trending —the case of #gorillagluegirl. If you are confused as to why Gorilla Glue is trending, I must first mention that it's not solely for its superior adhesive properties.

Louisiana native Tessica Brown, who runs the Dazzling Divaz dance team, and is the owner of Tessica's Little Angels daycare, posted a TikTok video earlier this month and shared it on Instagram. Brown discussed how she ran out of her usual hair spray gel, so she used Gorilla Glue adhesive spray. She ended up asking for advice on the app about how to remove the Gorilla Glue from her hair after it was on her hair for a whole month.

She tried suggestions from followers to use tea tree oil, olive oil, and a culmination of other oils, but it was to no avail.


"I washed my hair about 15 times and it didn't move," Brown said. She then went on to tell her followers "don't ever, ever use this on your hair," while holding up the spray can.

I'm sure we've all been in a situation where sometimes don't have the time to run to the store to grab something that you may need. So, you end up having to work with what you have, as did Brown. Unfortunately, as she used the Gorilla Glue adhesive spray to give her the finishing touches needed for a "sleeker" look because it's what she had on hand, she didn't realize that the glue would really be difficult to come out.

Many people have become invested in her case negatively by making memes and mocking her, saying that she's an "opportunist" and a "liar" which is downright mean to say when Brown has acknowledged that " it was a bad idea."

But there have also been amazing people who have said some encouraging things and are genuinely concerned about her wellbeing, such as Chicago-based rapper, Chance The Rapper saying, "...When I watched the video the second time it was hard to laugh cause I could tell shorty genuinely didn't know she had put one of the worlds most powerful adhesives in her sh*t. I hope she recovers well."

Even Gorilla Glue wrote a statement on Twitter expressing their happiness for Brown seeking medical attention. "We are glad to see in her recent video that Miss Brown has received medical treatment from her local medical facility and wish her the best," said Gorilla Glue on Twitter. Despite this, Brown is considering taking legal action against the company.

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However, the sentiments that have resonated with me came fromThe View's Sunny Hostin.

"So many are being dismissive of #gorillaglue," said Hostin. "Given the history of how black women are targeted and still battle the pervasive belief that our natural hair is unprofessional, unkempt, or in some way "a statement" pls show her some grace and understanding."

From the beginning of time, Black people, especially that of Black women like myself, are sometimes the subject of ridicule due to appearances even if they are more than capable of succeeding at something. Yes, laws have been put in place to prevent hair discrimination in the workplace, but it's still a very real and unfortunate occurrence.

There have been times in the past where I felt obligated to wear my hair in "sleek" ponytails as well just to be a step closer to what I thought was the right thing to do to "fit in" and look as "polished" as possible. I've even experienced people telling me that my hair looks "much better" than my curls and coils hanging in my face. The audacity of it all is something that I can't begin to fathom, but I say all this say to get to this point— have more compassion.

This was an honest mistake. Brown had the courage to come online and express what was going on with her, seeking help for something that she needed advice on. She shouldn't have been bashed for being candid about something that could be seen as embarrassing.

On a brighter note, Brown has raised over $17,000 in a GoFundMe and was able to see Beverly Hills surgeon, Dr. Michael K. Obeng who has offered to de-glue her hair for free and succeeded. Moments like this warm my heart because it shows that there are good people in the world who aren't quick to judge others for being human.

Updated: 9:04 am EST on 02/13/21

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Women founders continue to come up against common challenges and biases

Written by Kelly Devine, Division President UK & Ireland, Mastercard

Starting a business may have historically been perceived as a man’s game, but this couldn’t be further from reality. Research shows women are actually more likely than men to actively choose to start their own business – often motivated by the desire to be their own boss or to have a better work-life balance and spend more time with their family.

The recently published Mastercard Index of Women Entrepreneurship 2021 found that in the category of 'Aspiration Driven Entrepreneurship’ – capturing those who actively choose to start their own business – women in the UK surpass men: 60% vs 56%. And Mastercard research from February 2022 found 10% of female business owners started their business in the past two years compared to 6% of men – meaning women were 67% more likely to have started a business during the pandemic.

Yet, there are common challenges that women founders continue to come up against - not least the gender imbalance in the household and long-held biases which are still prevalent.

In the UK, women are almost three times more likely to be balancing care and home commitments than men, and this was exacerbated during the pandemic as the additional barriers of school closures and lockdowns meant that the care time of dependents rose significantly on a day-to-day level for women. In addition, women were less likely to have access to a home office, greatly impacting the work they were able to accomplish when working from home was the only option.

It's also widely known that female business owners are still more likely to struggle to access funding for their business ideas. According to Dealroom, all-women founding teams received just 1.4% of the €23.7bn invested into UK start-ups in 2021, while all-male leadership teams have taken almost 90% of the available capital.

Without financial support, and when juggling significant time pressures both at home and at work, how can women grow their companies and #BreaktheBias (as this year’s International Women’s Day termed it)? What tools or support can save them time and money, and give them the headspace they need to focus on building their business?

With female owned businesses collectively estimating revenue growth of £120 billion over the next five years, solving this problem is bigger than supporting women – it’s about supporting the national economy.

Using tech to level the playing field

There are clearly societal issues at play that need to be resolved. But when we look at the rise in technology businesses during the pandemic, we can plainly see an alternative source of support critical for business growth: digital tools.

A third of female business owners say new technologies will be crucial to the success of their business in the future and one in five say it is the most important thing for business growth.

With new technology comes new ways to pay, create, and work. And yet there are barriers that prevent business owners accessing this technology. Women are significantly more likely to say they want to use more digital tools but don’t know what is best for their business and also more concerned about the security of digital tools.

When technology is adopted by businesses – whether using online accounting solutions or messenger services for communicating with staff – it saves them time, allows them to maintain and grow their customer base, and ultimately increases cost savings and profit.

By drastically improving the training and support that is available to women-owned business to access and utilise technology we will allow these businesses to grow and succeed. And we know there is demand for it.

Research done by the IFC and Dalberg shows that female entrepreneurs are more likely to invest time and money in business development. This includes product development, customer base expansion, and digital tools and training and there are plenty of services available offering this type of support – many of them for free.

One such programme is Strive UK – an initiative of the Mastercard Center for Inclusive Growth – which aims to reach 650,000 micro and small business owners across the UK and empower them with the tools they need to thrive in the digital economy through free guidance, helpful tools and one-to-one mentoring.

Working together with small business experts – Enterprise Nation, Be the Business and Digital Boost – we hope to ensure hundreds of thousands of UK female business owners have the tools they need to succeed and reach their ambitious goals. Because this ambition remains strong in the UK, with female business owners largely optimistic about the future despite the multitude of challenges they are facing. Four in ten say they will grow their business in the next five years – compared to only a third of male business owners – and they’re also 35% less likely than men to say they plan to downsize or close the business.

But if we do not empower female entrepreneurs to access the tools and technology they need to grow, there is a risk this optimism could be misplaced. Support programmes that provide business owners with guidance and mentorship can help ensure this isn’t the case, allowing female entrepreneurs to not only survive but thrive in the months and years ahead.